Do you have to pay for mediation UK?

Asked by: Marge Terry  |  Last update: January 21, 2026
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Mediation isn't free, but it's quicker and cheaper than going to court. If the differences between you and your ex-partner are about a child, you might be able to get a free voucher worth up to £500 for mediation. Check if you qualify for the Family Mediation Voucher Scheme on GOV.UK.

How much does mediation cost in the UK?

The average cost of mediation in the UK is around £150 per hour per person, with most sessions lasting between one and two hours. However, the total cost depends on how many sessions you need and whether you choose private or legal aid funded mediation.

Can I get free mediation in the UK?

If you're on a low income and able to get Legal Aid then the information meeting (the MIAM) and mediation sessions will be free. You may also get financial help to pay for legal advice in connection with mediation if you feel you need it.

What if I can't afford mediation?

Second, when you make it clear that you can't afford the mediator, the lawyer might agree to front the whole cost, in exchange for an agreement that the mediation fee get taken into account in the division of assets when all is said and done, i..e mediate now, pay later.

Who pays for family mediation UK?

Legal Aid for Mediation

Some clients on low income and in receipt of benefits such as Universal Credit will be eligible for legal aid. This means the entire cost of mediation (including the Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting MIAM) will be funded for them, with no financial contribution of their own.

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What is the success rate of mediation in the UK?

The overall success rate of mediation remains very high, with an aggregate settlement rate of 92% which is not significantly different from our 2020 findings.

Who pays for mediation in child custody?

Who pays for mediation? Generally, the parents are expected to split the costs of child custody mediation. In counties where mediation is required by law (where the population is more than 100,0001), fees are based on a sliding scale, depending on each parent's ability to pay.

Is there a downside to mediation?

Because the mediator has no power to impose a resolution of the dispute on the parties, the parties must be willing to compromise. Mediation costs money, and an unsuccessful mediation will result in additional costs of litigation. Costs are usually split between the parties.

What if one party does not agree to mediation?

If one party refuses to participate in mediation, the other party may face challenges in resolving the dispute outside of court. However, the non-participating party's refusal does not prevent the other party from seeking alternative avenues for resolution.

What happens if we can't agree on anything during meditation?

If you do not reach an agreement at your court-ordered mediation, the mediator must report to the court the fact that no agreement was reached. The confidentiality rules still apply. Even if you do not reach an agreement during the mediation, you may continue to try to settle your case after mediation.

How long does mediation take in the UK?

For a one issue matter, such as parenting arrangements at Christmas, a holiday abroad or a change in the amount of spousal maintenance then many are able to reach agreement in just one joint mediation session. The average for most clients on parenting or financial matters is 3 x 90-minute mediation appointments.

Do I have to speak at mediation?

Although the lawyers usually do most of the talking, clients are allowed to talk if they would like. But, always discuss what you plan to say with your lawyer and decide whether it is better to talk in the opening session or later in private with the mediator.

Can I refuse mediation UK?

You are not obligated to respond to an invitation to mediate, and this is not a legal requirement. However, it is important to consider whether mediation may be useful for you, and whether the process may help resolve your dispute before deciding whether to participate.

What percentage of cases settle at mediation?

Mediations tend to settle with a success rate of 80-92 percent, making them an effective means of reaching an agreement. How do you negotiate a mediation settlement?

What is a mediation fee?

What are mediation fees? Mediation fees are the fees a real estate agent charges for the mediation between you and the owner/landlord of a property and the services that come with.

How long after mediation will I get my money?

How Long After Mediation Will I Get My Money? You can expect to receive your settlement check four to six weeks after signing the agreement. However, it might take longer to receive your check if the case is complex.

Why do people avoid mediation?

Typically parties avoid mediation because they believe they will be able to get full control of a project.

What happens if I refuse to go to family court in the UK?

Therefore, if you do not attend a court hearing it could be many months before you get another date, or in some situations, the court may make cost orders against you (to reflect the costs wasted by you not going to the court hearing) or even proceed in your absence and make an interim or final court order.

When should you not use mediation?

There is a power imbalance: When there is a significant power imbalance between the parties, you should avoid mediation. For example, negotiating will be difficult if one party has substantial control or influence over the other.

Can you sue after mediation?

What Happens After Mediation Fails? If mediation fails to bring the parties to a settlement, the claimant may proceed with their injury claim in court. The court process involves filing a complaint, working through the discovery process, and attending a trial.

What is the success rate of mediation?

Mediation has a 70-80% success rate depending on the forum. As a mediator and from other sources this is a valid statistic. In my experience, in cases where both parties are truly interested in resolution, the result can be 90%. Mediation settles disputes quicker than the time for litigation.

Is trial better than mediation?

Mediation is often faster and more cost-effective than litigation. Parties have more control over the outcome, as they actively participate in the decision-making process. Mediation can preserve relationships and be less emotionally draining than a trial. Here are three key differences between mediation and trial.

What if I can't pay for mediation?

Before you decide you can't afford a professional mediation service, you may be surprised to discover these creative options can make fees more feasible: Ask about an installment plan. See if your mediator will let you make monthly payments over an extended period of time.

Who wins most child custody cases?

Mothers historically have won more custody battles due to traditional roles and perceptions of mothers as the primary caregivers.

What not to say in child custody mediation?

DON'T refer to the children as “my” children. Another red flag for the mediator – someone who seems possessive of the children will not be found to be the parent who fosters a relationship between the children and the other parent – one of the statutory factors the Court must consider when fashioning a custody order.