What to expect from a mediation meeting?

Asked by: Dr. Javier Reichert  |  Last update: July 25, 2025
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The mediator will ask questions, reframe issues, assist the parties to understand each other, and help identify solutions. Mediators do not take sides, pass down decisions, offer legal advice or reveal confidences. There are a number of kinds of discussions that parties can have in the context of a mediation.

What do you say during mediation?

UNDERSTANDING THE OTHER PERSON'S POINT OF VIEW . . .

You could probably describe how the other person has acted and how her/his behavior has affected you. And, you could probably name the most important issues to you in the dispute. All of that is good because you will need to discuss these things in mediation.

What questions will I be asked in mediation?

Questions on Disagreements (2)
  • Is there a way that both of you might be right? ...
  • What criteria could you use to decide what works best?
  • Would it be possible to test your ideas in practice and see which work best? ...
  • you do that?
  • Would you be willing to jointly investigate your conflicting factual assertions?

What is the average settlement offer during mediation?

Mediation is a process that often provides parties the opportunity to reach settlement agreements, though average offers tend to range from 20-50% of damages. It's important for both involved in mediation sessions and negotiations.

How to prepare for a mediation meeting?

Identify key facts, witnesses and documents and list the main arguments on liability and quantum. Be clear about your client's objectives. Prepare a short case summary for service prior to the mediation. Give consideration to a confidential settlement statement for the mediators' use only.

Mediation 101: What to expect at mediation

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Do I talk during mediation?

You do not have to speak at mediation. Your lawyer – and the other party's lawyer – will be doing most of the speaking during mediation. Now, the mediatior may have questions for you, but the mediatior will likely only do so when he or she is meeting privately with you and your lawyer.

What is the golden rule of mediation?

The Golden Rule of Mediation is to treat others as you would like to be treated during the negotiation process. It embodies the principles of fairness, respect, and collaboration, guiding parties to engage in negotiations in good faith and with a focus on achieving a mutually beneficial resolution.

Who wins in mediation?

Unlike a jury verdict in a civil trial, there is no clear winner and loser in a mediation settlement. Instead, the goal of mediation is to reach a settlement in which both sides see the outcome as fair and desirable and feel that they have reached a satisfactory agreement on their own.

What is a good settlement offer?

A reasonable settlement offer is one that includes medical expenses, lost wages, pain and suffering, and property damage. While it varies from case to case, an experienced personal injury lawyers can help you find a reasonable amount for your case.

What is a normal settlement amount?

The rough 'rule of thumb' that we generally use to determine the value of the average settlement agreement payout (in respect of compensation for termination of employment) is two to three months' gross salary (in addition to your notice pay, holiday pay etc., as outlined above).

Do I have to say anything in mediation?

The mediator will likely have everyone introduce themselves and will explain the process. The mediator will then tell you that discussions during the mediation are privileged and cannot be divulged at a hearing or trial and nothing said at the mediation can be brought up later.

What words do you use in mediation?

We then asked the mediators what words do you use to prime parties for the mediation process? The responses included 'efficient,' 'fair,' 'listen,' 'partner,' 'together,' 'trust,' 'appreciate,' 'willingness,' 'result,' 'path,' 'future' and 'please.

What to expect at your first mediation?

The mediator will ask questions, reframe issues, assist the parties to understand each other, and help identify solutions. Mediators do not take sides, pass down decisions, offer legal advice or reveal confidences. There are a number of kinds of discussions that parties can have in the context of a mediation.

How do I prepare myself for mediation?

Preparing for Your First Mediation Session: A Checklist
  1. Understand the Mediation Process. ...
  2. Choose the Right Mediator. ...
  3. Prepare Your Case. ...
  4. Understand Your Goals and Interests. ...
  5. Consider the Other Party's Perspective. ...
  6. Plan Your Strategy. ...
  7. Prepare Emotionally. ...
  8. Logistical Preparations.

What to wear to a mediation?

Dress professionally and conservatively. Men should wear pants and a button down shirt, or if you have a suit and/or jacket wear it. Make sure you are well groomed, clean shaven or with your beard trimmed and neat. Women should choose a dark colored pant or skirt suit, a modest dress or a skirt or slacks and a blouse.

What not to say during arbitration?

Always get straight to the merits without berating the other side or whining about how badly it has treated you. Another threat to your credibility is the “kitchen sink” arbitration demand or a response that includes numerous claims or defenses that have little chance of succeeding.

How much money should I ask for in a settlement?

Ask for more than what you think you'll get

There's no precise formula, but it's generally recommended that personal injury plaintiffs ask for about 75% to 100% more than what they hope to receive. In other words, if you think your lawsuit might be worth $10,000, ask for $17,500 to $20,000.

How do I increase my settlement offer?

Insurance companies are more likely to offer a higher settlement if you can demonstrate clear liability on the part of the defendant. Strong evidence proving fault, such as eyewitness statements, video footage, or police reports, can increase your leverage in negotiations.

What is a reasonable settlement offer?

As a general rule of thumb, settlement agreements often range from three to six months' salary, plus notice pay. However, this can vary widely based on: The industry you work in. Your job role and level of seniority. The specific circumstances of your case.

Should I be nervous for mediation?

Relax – Being at a mediation can be stressful. You may not have attended one previously and you may never attend another one. However, you will think more clearly, listen better, explain more clearly and be more likely to reach an agreement if you are relaxed.

Who makes the first offer in mediation?

First, it is traditional for the plaintiff to start. (It confuses the defense when they don't want to; and not in a good way.) Second, plaintiff brought the case. Presumably, plaintiff knows the value of his or her claims.

How to win during mediation?

Mediation: Ten Rules for Success
  1. Rule 1: The decision makers must participate. ...
  2. Rule 2: The important documents must be physically present. ...
  3. Rule 3: Be right, but only to a point. ...
  4. Rule 4: Build a deal. ...
  5. Rule 5: Treat the other party with respect. ...
  6. Rule 6: Be persuasive. ...
  7. Rule 7: Focus on interests.

What is the most difficult part of mediation?

The most difficult part of the mediation process is to get people to accept that mediation can be an effective way to resolve their dispute.

What should you not say during mediation?

Disrespectful Comments

Making unnecessary comments under your breath, having a negative attitude, or rolling your eyes won't help you. The defense team might decide they don't want to meet you halfway to reach an agreement if you mistreat them. The mediator might not want to work with you, either.

How to behave in a mediation meeting?

Listen to what others say about the situation as well as how they felt about it and what they thought about it. If you have something you feel you must say, make a note and wait your turn. PLEASE DON'T INTERRUPT. Each person has a right to be heard completely.